If you’re thinking about becoming a foster parent, it’s natural to wonder: “Will I regret fostering?” At Family Fostering Partners, we believe in being honest about the realities of fostering, so let’s explore this question.

The Short Answer

Most foster carers don’t regret their decision. In fact, many tell us it’s the most rewarding thing they’ve ever done. But fostering isn’t without its challenges, and it’s important to understand both the highs and the lows before you begin.

What Makes Fostering So Rewarding?

Foster carers often describe a sense of purpose that comes from helping a child who really needs them. You’re not just providing a home; you’re offering safety, stability, and care during one of the most difficult times in a child’s life. Seeing a child grow in confidence and achieve milestones because of your support is something truly special.

Foster parents also tell us they value the relationships they build; not just with the children, but with other carers and the support network we provide. At Family Fostering Partners, you’ll never foster alone. We offer 24/7 support, ongoing training, and a community that truly understands the journey.

What Are the Challenges?

Like any role that matters, fostering can be tough at times. Some children come from difficult backgrounds and may need extra patience and understanding. Saying goodbye when a child moves on can also be emotional.

But here’s what our carers often say: those challenges are outweighed by the difference they make. Most wouldn’t change their decision for the world.

Regret or Reward?

When we ask our carers if they regret fostering, the overwhelming answer is no.

Steve reflects on his 13 years as a foster parent ‘You become a cook, a coach for football or any other spots they are interested in, you become a storyteller, there are so many different roles, it’s not as simple as having a spare room with a bed. It’s a 24/7 job. But no, I would definitely not change this journey. I really have enjoyed it, and I’m still enjoying it now’.

CJ who fosters on a short term basis reflects on the tougher times during his fostering journey ‘When things are tough or were tired, it’s very easy to be down. The reality is we’re doing this to make a difference, and every time a child smiles or says thank you, a little part of you knows you’re doing the right thing.’

Thinking About Fostering?

If you’re considering fostering, we’re here to support you every step of the way. We’ll be honest about the realities, provide all the training you need, and be on hand whenever you need us. Do foster carers regret it? Almost never. Do they find it life-changing, meaningful, and full of purpose? Absolutely.

If you’d like to learn more about becoming a foster parent, get in touch with Family Fostering Partners today. Together, we can change a child’s life – and yours too.